The Honour of your Presence Part 3

And yes, there are even rules for the Thank You Notes and other Social Stationery.

Thank You Notes

1.  If you plan to order thank you notes with your new married monogram, married couple monogram, or new last name, then you may not use it until after the wedding.  For showers and pre-wedding events you use stationery with your maiden monogram, maiden name, or simply your first name.

2.  It is appropriate to send thank you notes for wedding gifts received before the wedding.

3.  Send out your thank you notes as quickly as possible.  The gift givers wants to be sure it was received, especially if it was sent directly from a company.

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